today is blah,
it's a cold world right now.
but ironically it is a beautiful sunny day in vancouver.
and
i'm feeling pretty blah.
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Sunday, February 7, 2010
clean slate
hmm clean slate.
it's a new year and nothing big has changed about myself. but i think it's darn time i start writing again. i must say i have been inspired all over again - from life. my life is just strolling by and that's that. i'm just cruising on by, trying to figure out life but a pace I am satisfied with. * besides i have a feeling that 2010 is going to be better than 2009 i hope! it just sounds nice too :) so cheers to the new year and cheers to the new beginnings of writing my absurd and sometimes sane feelings to the world.
how do i feel and what did i realize today?
i have been reading blogs all day today @ work and it made me realize ... do not listen to others when it comes to breaks! breaks mean 3429409 effings things. and that will never change. a "break" in definition will always be hazy to you and me so instead of wondering do yourself a favour and ask before you continue this acclaimed break. it's just trouble when you wonder and then rules break and hearts break too. so ASK. and it's true breaks MAY lead to break-ups or let's be optimistic and say breaks could also mean:
- time to figure out what you really want
- giving space to think before it all blows up
- proof that if the foundation you've built together is really strong enough
- straight up down time for yourself.
- or * the other person just wants to better themselves for one another
you can't fix it if you don't step back to give yourself time to realize what're you doing that is causing you take this breather. sometimes in relationships, i can attest to this, sometimes you start to change. you either change in a way where you cant even recognize yourself - good or bad. but if this change is NOT good then step the F back and see what you need to do to make some changes, if you really want it to work. i like to call these breathers. remember we were all single and independent before, it may be rough when you're madly in love with your special someone but c'mon you'll be okay. so let's call these breathers shall we.
I thought writing things down would make me listen to myself more. make me realize things for myself once it's been written. we'll see!
it's a new year and nothing big has changed about myself. but i think it's darn time i start writing again. i must say i have been inspired all over again - from life. my life is just strolling by and that's that. i'm just cruising on by, trying to figure out life but a pace I am satisfied with. * besides i have a feeling that 2010 is going to be better than 2009 i hope! it just sounds nice too :) so cheers to the new year and cheers to the new beginnings of writing my absurd and sometimes sane feelings to the world.
how do i feel and what did i realize today?
i have been reading blogs all day today @ work and it made me realize ... do not listen to others when it comes to breaks! breaks mean 3429409 effings things. and that will never change. a "break" in definition will always be hazy to you and me so instead of wondering do yourself a favour and ask before you continue this acclaimed break. it's just trouble when you wonder and then rules break and hearts break too. so ASK. and it's true breaks MAY lead to break-ups or let's be optimistic and say breaks could also mean:
- time to figure out what you really want
- giving space to think before it all blows up
- proof that if the foundation you've built together is really strong enough
- straight up down time for yourself.
- or * the other person just wants to better themselves for one another
you can't fix it if you don't step back to give yourself time to realize what're you doing that is causing you take this breather. sometimes in relationships, i can attest to this, sometimes you start to change. you either change in a way where you cant even recognize yourself - good or bad. but if this change is NOT good then step the F back and see what you need to do to make some changes, if you really want it to work. i like to call these breathers. remember we were all single and independent before, it may be rough when you're madly in love with your special someone but c'mon you'll be okay. so let's call these breathers shall we.
I thought writing things down would make me listen to myself more. make me realize things for myself once it's been written. we'll see!
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